Since the AVCHD actually is a whole structure, with specifics for each manufacturer, it is easiest to keep a backup of the entire card.
Do an image of the card by using the built in DiskUtility. When you have the card mounted and it shows up in DiskUtility, click on the drive (named like the device that holds the memory card) and click the "Create image" (or similar) icon in the menu. Create an image which is readonly (to prevent OSX from placing index files) and store it somewhere safe.
When you want to import files to iMovie, just mount the newly created image and iMovie will treat it like the real thing, including all metadata.
Copying the MTS files alone off the memory card will not retain some metadata, however when using iMovie, you won't need it anyways. As iMovie won't import standalone MTS files you can choose to either put them into an AVCHD structure as above (an iMovie archive is basically the same) or use a third party tool to convert them from MTS to a Quicktime format. The latter is easier and can be accomplished using the free MPEGStreamclip. Convert to AIC (iMovie internal format).
As iMovie uses the creation timestamp when importing single clips, you can use terminal to "touch" the files to the correct date if you know this. Or just fix it in iMovie itself.
HTH