No, I am not trying to hack the phone. Heres the long version of what happened :
I got a new MacBook Pro. When I plugged in my 3g Iphone into it, it prompted me to put on the new software, well, of course I wanted the new software. I did so, and when finished I realized I deleted all my contacts/texts/pics. Not a problem, even though I didn't back up the phone on the new Macbook before I installed, I was backed up on my mac mini. So I plugged the phone into the old computer w/ Itunes 9.2.11 and it says that itunes can't recognize the device, and I need to upgrade Itunes. Well the operating system on my old mac mini wont support 10.4. So again, no problem, I'll put on the old software back on the phone, do a restore from back up, then put the phone on the on the new MacBook and back it up before doing the upgrade. Well, guess what, I'm stuck in recovery mode at the step where I am installing the old software on the phone, but I can't get it out of recovery mode.
Did I explain that clearly enough? So as a temporary fix I just put the new software on the phone, but I have absolutely no contacts. Who wants to be that guy, "hey who's this sry I lost my numbers" Not to mention all my gps waypoints, notes, and so on.
(I'm not sure what term I violated either by saying that this was the first time apple disappointed me - nor did I have malicious intent by the comment - I'm disappointed by Microsoft every day, once isn't bad when you look at it that way!)
Thanks for any advice, I can't believe I can't figure this one out either, it's bugging me.