I have to suspect that the Apple tech you spoke to just was not too much of a tech at all, electronics-wise at least. Or, heck, even Electricity 101-wise. Besides that, I can't believe that any Apple technical document would have said that. What I suspect is that the "tech" couldn't find a better answer in his allowed scripts and so decided to just use common sense. Too much pressure is just too much pressure, right?
It's certainly unwise for you to try drinking from a fire hose, but that analogy doesn't apply at all when applied to electricity. AC or DC circuits only take what they take and the only critical thing is the presented voltage. Wattage in supply is a measure of the max current available at that voltage level, but is not a measure of how much power whatever is connected up is going to consume. Examples of this are obvious.
Bottom line .... you can use any 5VDC charger on anything which requires that voltage level for its charging circuit. Things will work at maximum speed if the wattage is at least at the spec minimum, and will work more slowly to not at all if the power is below spec.