I use VLC to watch movies on my Mac but want to darken the iMac screen and view only the TV. How can I do that?
In VLC's "Video" preference, check "Black screens in Fullscreen mode". Select your TV with "Fullscreen Video Device" in the "Video" menu.
Next, for some reason I lose the mouse pointer at the top of my iMac. Only at the top does it go off-screen and it's kinda frustrating to lose the darn thing.
You may have Zoom enabled in the "Seeing" tab of "Universal Access" system preference. Try ⌘⌥-
(Command-Option-Minus).
Finally, how can I use my TV as the primary monitor that would perfectly mimic my desktop? It seems that I lose much real estate when switching to the mirror mode of the displays. I've tried everything I can think of
If the TV and iMac don't have the same number of pixels, there is no way to mirror them and fill both displays. If mirroring is off, you can make the TV the primary display by dragging the menu bar to the other screen picture in the "Arrangement" tab of "Displays" system preference. (Aim carefully so you get just the menu bar.) With Mirroring off, both displays will be filled.