When I try to email an alert to myself, the popup only shows an old email address. My address book card is set to "me" and has my correct email. I don't know how to get rid of the old one.
I have the same issue... an old work address keeps popping up and I want.. no NEED to delete it from the iCal list. I tried both solutions suggested... deleted the previous recipients in Mail, and deleted/recreated a Vcard for myself with the new email addresses.
iCal still comes up with the old work email address... 😟 This should be easy to do, but it isn't.