Hello again, Bob,
as I suspected, it is Sunday again, the first chance I've had to address this issue since you last posted. I plugged in the Ethernet cables to the Airport Extreme and to the Airport Express, then plugged the latter into the power strip, and what do you know? I got a flashing amber light. And it interfered with my Airport Extreme WiFi connection. Hmm. That didn't happen the previous Sunday. I open up Airport Utility and I find a a DHCP conflict error (or was it range error?). Anyway, I unplugged the Express so I could use the WiFi and downloaded our conversation here and then got ready to try again. I was just about to call Apple Support and eat the $49, when I decided to try going through your last post item by item. Lo and behold the issue was at "Connection Sharing". The Express was NOT set to "off" (Bridge Mode). Now, I've no idea what that setting means, but the moment I changed it and the Express updated the settings, everything became good, the light turned green, and both my iPhone and iPad can connect to this second network.
So while I'm sure I can find some information about Bridge Mode elsewhere, since you've been so incredibly helpful perhaps you could explain it to those of us who don't know what it is and why one would choose one setting in that choice rather than another?
And while we're discussing all of this, as far as having a "hidden" network, yes, absolutely, of course, any teenager with the right equipment could locate my "hidden" network, but I see no reason not to make them work a little bit harder to locate it.
Do you have any idea what the range (distance) the Express has (of course there are variables like what walls and floors are made of and how thick they are, etc., etc.)? And is there a limit to the number of devices that can connect (if I choose to share)?
You've been incredibly helpful and kind. Many thanks!
Kris