You're not understanding what a Raw file is.
When a camera opens the shutter and light falls on the sensor the camera reads that data and processes it into a photograph. That processing involves correcting the colour, some sharpening, setting the white balance and so on. The out put from this process is then saved (on 99.9% of cameras and phones) as a Jpeg file.
However, some high-end cameras, usually dSLRs have an option to step into that workflow just before the camera processes the sensor data. What these cameras do is offer the data from the sensor to the user unprocessed. This is a Raw. Each camera make saves their Raw data with a different suffix - NEF in the case of Nikon, CR2 in the case of Canons and so on.
With this sensor dump the user can (with specialised software) process the data him/herself.
That's what a Raw is. The sensor dump from the camera. Unless you have a higher-end camera you're not shooting Raw.
When you import to iPhoto it makes a byte by byte copy of the file. If you export the Original then you get the same back out again. So, if you import a jpeg then exporting the original gets a jpeg back out.
So, you can't import a Jpeg and export a Raw. The only thing that can create a Raw is the camera.
When i look at the original in iphoto, it is in jpeg format, for this example it is an iphone picture so its ~2.6MB
Okay.
When I export it raw, it is the same (see response above).
You can't export it Raw. There is no such setting. You can export it as Original.
When I export it at highest quality, it is 2x the size. That should be impossible unless there is a larger raw file, right?
No. Remember a Jpeg is not an Image file. It's a compression file. When the camera processes the image it compresses it and stores it in the Jpeg. When you view the shot what happens is the Jpeg is decompressed to get to the image. So, that 2.6MB Jpeg actually contains a compressed image that might be 8 or 10 MB.
WHen you export at High Quality, all that means is you are using less compression. It's the same image just not stuffed as tightly into a Jpeg.