Apple ID Password Recovery issue

I have an Apple ID that I want to use with the Mobile Me service to set up the "find my ipda" service. My current apple id does not contain an "@" sign so cannot be used. I apparently also have a second Apple ID that is the same as my current email address, but the password recovery email goes to an account I no longer have access too, and the recovery question answer that is stored is incorrect.

Is there a way to recover the account or merge the two accounts, like I can with Google?

Thanks!