I have found the answer.
The answer is their is no way in FCP X to change the date. FCP X is using the date created value of the file. No other meta data is used.
So to fix your dates you have to change the creation date of the file. Hopefully like iMovie they will add this feature (change clip date) to it in the future.
Currently these are the only ways I know how to change the file date:
You can use TOUCH command in terminal. It's easy enough for a few files (google it for more info), but not so much for a lot like I have.
There is an app in the app store for mac called FIle Date Changer 5. It has a nice UI and is easy to change the date. It's $5.
After you change the date FCP X will sort it correctly in the events. This is only an issue when you capture non-date media like Hi-8 or capture cards. Anything with a time stamp like DV or HDV FCP X will modify the date created to be the date of the video.
***** but works for now. By the time they add the feature I'll have already changed all my media. I doubt they'll add it since is a transitional issue. It goes away on it's own over time.