My Ipad is displaying IPAD disabled connect to itunes. No clue what the password is and when I connect to itunes it says must unlock to connect to itunes. Have never connected to itunes.

i forgot my password how can i reget my password

Take it to your Apple Store.

If you've forgotten the passcode to unlock the iPad then you will need to connect the iPad to the computer that you normally sync to and you should then be able to reset the iPad and restore/re-sync your content to it (http://support.apple.com/kb/HT1212) - you may need to put the iPad into recovery mode in order to be able to reset it : http://support.apple.com/kb/ht1808

If you do it via a different computer then :

If you restore on a different computer that was never synced with the device, you will be able to unlock the device for use and remove the passcode, but your data will not be present.

Or do you mean your iTunes account password ? If so : http://iforgot.apple.com

how do you unclock the device for use and remove passcode?

Click on the first link in the response provided by King_Penguin. Follow the instructions under: If you have never synced with iTunes....

Cheers,

GB