Well... your response is obscure.
If you buy a Mac for playing games, maybe that is the first error. Games for Mac are very often poorly ported versions of the Windows-Game. That's the game-developer's fault. If you want to play games with good performance on a Mac, there's no way but using Bootcamp. Within Windows you then have no problem with external monitors and mouse acceleration. Mac's Mouse-acceleration indeed is no good for gaming. But if your focus is gaming at all, you could buy a **** of a gaming-machine for that money, even mobile.
The boot-args thing works well, when rebooting everytime you want to use only the external screen. Shutdown, restart, close the lid when the reset actually takes place and wait until your logged in. After that you can reopen the lid.
I don't know which mouse-behaviour you are describing. General mouse behaviour in the system is as normal as it has been in the past. If you describe the mouse-behaviour in games, well, again, it's the developer's fault of poorly porting their games. Trine & Trine 2 is a good example. I had a laggy, sluggish, unusable mouse. Counterstrike worked well, but the Mac's mouse acceleration disturbs a lot in games, that rely on mouse-precision and training so much. Other games, like EVE, WoW or GW work well as related to the mouse, but poor as related to the performance in comparison to the Windows-Clients.
I don't really know, why I am typing all that ****. People writing that irrational either don't want to know how things work or they are viral marketing-agents trying to discredit the competitor.
I'm no Mac-evangelist, but as a developer I am a power-user and I've been using all three big systems. The Mac is THE FORCE regarding work, while Windows is THE FORCE regarding gaming and Linux is THE FORCE regarding servers. So the conclusion of this digression is: Diversity is the key 8o)
Back to the problem: We can't use external screens with the lid of our MBs open under 10.8.2. If any one knows a solution, please post it here. And Apple: SHAME ON YOU.