I think I may have finally achieved success. My first
boot after upgrading the 10.6.8 updated system resulted
in the infamous black screen no signal. Shut down with
the power button then restarted by zapping PRAM
(command+option+p+r). I got the display back. Did the repair
permissions as usual. Then went into monitor preferences.
Pressed the detect displays button. Then changed the resolution
to 720p. I then changed it back to 1080p. It always has been
set to 60Hz NTSC so didn't touch that. Also disabled the menu
bar widget. I did al this thinking that maybe if I force it to
change settings that it me rewrite something that may have been
corrupted. Also, whether it means anything or not, also tried
to see if I could connect to it via Screen Sharing with my iMac and it did.
After all this, decided to shut everything down. Mac, receiver, and TV and
let sit for 10 minutes or so.
Then powered up TV, then receiver, and then the Mini.
Suprise!!!!! It booted. Did the same thing a second time.
And guess what, it booted properly again!!
I messed around with a lot of things, but something there got
me back up and running again, with Lion.
Last time, zapping PRAM only worked once (was first thing I tried).
Maybe changing display settings and changing them back did force
a rewrite of something to a new format.
Well, gonna sit down now and see if PLEX still works and
watch a movie and if I can still watch my iTunes movies.
Further, we'll see when this guy sits overnight and I fire it
up tommorow whether it still works.