Re If VNC is running, does it affect your Geekbench score:
Yes, anything that ties up some of your Mini's processor(s) time and cycles will affect the Geekbench score. But not nearly enough to explain the difference between 1754 and, say, 5500.
"Hardwars" -- and we are NOT having fun yet.
So, which are the easier discoveries:
1) workarounds for networking and PLEX under Lion, or
2) discovering if Apple intended to hard-code the 2011 Minis to not run Snow Leopard (not likely, or we wouldn't have gotten this far),
3) if that's not the case, figuring out how to transfer / hack / tweak existing drivers for SL so that the Mini can make the most of the i5/i7, Thunderbolt and graphics chips that are waiting to be unleashed. Not easy, but possible.
We need to find some Code Whisperers.