Your photo is fine — I wish all the photos that people posted here were half as good. Just click the image in your post to see the full-size, full-resolution version.
In my opinion, the dark pitting along the front edge is indeed corrosion, as I thought it might be. I've never seen or heard of anything like the "spidery veins" that are clearly visible in your picture. They look like microscopic cracking or crazing in the anodizing (an aluminum oxide deposit that is formed on the surface of the aluminum by passing an electrical current through it in the presence of the appropriate chemicals.) The anodized surface is integral with the underlying aluminum, not a coating applied to it, and my understanding is that it's extremly thin. So it's hard for me to understand what could make it craze the way yours appears to have done. There do appear to be two small scratches on the wrist wrest where the crazing is, but the crazing doesn't particularly appear to be related to them, nor to the pits along the edge. It's as though there are two entirely separate processes at work degrading the finish of your MBP, in addition to those two scratches.
As for "confronting" Apple, don't. A confrontation is what you don't want. A partnership, mutually interested in making you a happy customer, is what you do want, and if you turn up on time for a Genius Bar appointment displaying an upbeat, positive expectation that Apple wants that as much as you do, you may find the expectation fulfilled. So don't go in loaded for bear. Stay calm, polite and friendly. If you get nowhere with the Genius, ask to speak with the store manager before you've displayed any sign of annoyance. Bear in mind that the Genius may not have the authority to promise you the resolution you hope for, but the store manager probably does, so save some of your friendliness and good manners for him or her. You will get much farther with a calm, sunny disposition than you ever will with anger or, god forbid, threats of legal action or whatever. If you're tempted to fly off the handle and say things that will be impossible to unsay later, just remember that you probably can't hurt Apple no matter what you do — you just aren't big enough or bad enough. And for heaven's sake, don't take my saying that as a challenge. It's just a fact.
In short, don't be Apple's enemy. Make yourself part of a team with Apple to solve your problem.