OSX 10.6 Snow Leopard does not hide the User Library Folder.
OSX 10.7 Lion does hide it.
Open a Finder window. Option-Go Library will show the Library folder in the Finder window.
Open Terminal, then enter:
chflags nohidden ~/Library
Press return, then restart, and it will always be visible until the next major update, when you do the same thing again.
What system are you running?
If it's not Lion or Mt. Lion it is here:
NOTE: In Lion and Mountain Lion the Home/Library folder is now invisible. To make it permanently visible enter the following in the Terminal application window: chflags nohidden ~/Library and press the Return key - 10.7: Un-hide the User Library folder.
Thank you so much. Would you happen to know how I can find my photoshop elements folder. I've upgraded to snow leopard and now part of the folder is gone. I'm trying to follow the following path to upload photo actions I've purchased.
System Library/Application Support/ Adobe / Photoshop Elements 9 / and then there should be Photo Creations (missing) / Photo effects (missing).
Thanks again for all your help, it's greatly appreciated