It turns out my iMac can only have one iCloud id associated with it, so when I set up phone number 2 with its own iCloud account, and logged into that account it messed up account number one.
Not sure I understand why one can't share a Mac with multiple users and have multiple icloud accounts.
Just poor implementation I guess. Likely won't use iCloud.
Ok. Turns out I have a new issue. With this all set up correctly my iPhone will not sync photos. I get the same error message as noted abovem but the all the settings seem current based on what I was told.
Two log ins. 1 shared iPhoto library. Can't sync my photos, but the other account seems fine.
Do I need to upgrade to iPhoto 11?