APPLE has 40,000,000,000 iPhone 4s phones out in the world. There are clearly a significant number with problems, but if it were most of them, this thread would be a LOT longer than 700 pages! What would be the point of APPLE coming out and annoucing there is a problem? All it would do is cause mass hysteria and make the problem much worse than it is, in reality.
They have quietly acknowledged the problem and are obviously working on solving it through firmware updates. iOS 5.01 helped SOME people, but not all. Beta testers of iOS 5.1 beta 3 appear to report some improvements, but so far, not a total fix. It also appears that the final release will be scheduled for early March, if the schedule does not change.
For those who cannot get through more than 12 hours on a charge, I would suggest replacing your phone. I have done NOTHING to mine, other than replacing the SIM Card with a new one. I have everything on except Siri raise to activate and Time Zone location. I use wifi, BT, have push eneabled for exchange and yahoo mail. Fetch for gmail. I have iCloud active, iTunes Match Active, Photostream active, wifi sync active.
I make it through the entire day with no problems, and see even better battery life when connected via wifi.
I'm convinced the issue is related to how iOS5 deals with cellular data and the 4s dual antenna setup. I'm also convinced that APPLE can fix the problem, but they need to be careful to not fix it by causing reception problems as a result.
I certainly wish I could go a week without charging my iPhone, but I have ALWAYS been in the habit of charging overnight, every night, and this still suits me just fine.