You guys are a bit simple sometimes. I think I'll go watch a movie.
You see, the battery meter and usage time is really not relevant and I can't understand why you place so much trust in that. If you take a device from a full charge at 100% (and you went through 2 charge cycles+ since you've had the device) then you use it for 6 hours straight on 3G internet, then you've proved it's on par with Apple's claim in terms of usage. It makes no difference if one device drops 10% in 5 minutes and the other 1% in an hour. So that's one thing.
The other thing is that if you always put your device in airplane mode when you don't use it, and it doesn't drop in any significant manner during standby, then that most likely proves that there is no hardware issue. Because a faulty battery would not need 3G to be faulty.
Now, if it drains during standby with 3G on but in a huge way, it may be setting/config related or malformed data related - error in the polling of a mail app, or just too much polling from all your apps etc. But don't forget auto-checking emails and apps updating their data through 3G COUNT as usage, even when you're not touching the device. Having no mail no app all network centric settings to off will allow you to test that. It may be where the phone is, there's bad 3G coverage and that drains the battery... like people have had big drains going through airports or in some spots in the UK. Apple says it that bad coverage will create a drain.
It's that sort of reasoning that will go a long way, not relying on monitors that may not show things in a "linear" way because of error conditions... projections or extrapolations of usage time/battery introduce uncertainty. What has to be tested is full recharge in airplane mode or off, then use until 0%/shutoff, nothing short of that.
Good luck!