Wow... this solution had been mentioned a hundred times in this thread....
This was my last post:
As a final steep what I did was a full factory reset and no restore from previous backup, and kept the iphone with no apps installed (and no mail, nothing at all, just like a new factory OTB iPhone) for a day ... Battery started behaving as promised, 0,5%/h!!!! and the other issue I had with battery not getting fully charged was also gone (my battery was charging to 70% max!) so hardware issue was out of the table. thanks to sbailey4 who gave me many advices on how to improve battery life.
Now I've been enjoying a 1%/h since yesterday, with 3 e-mail account fetching every 30 mins, 3 or 4 calls of 5 mins aprox, no whatsapp, MSN Messenger online 24/7, and optimized settings for notifications and location services (please refer to previous posts to identify this settings).
As a conclusion I must say: Restoring backups was causing me this issue, there´s something wrong with the process of backup restoration, something in the background gets misconfigured (I don't know what exactly) so please don't do it until a new iOS build comes out. Just configure your phone manually, I know this is a PIA, but is the only thing that worked for me.
Just install 5.0.1 and after that do a settings reset (in my case I had to do a full reset, proceed as you wish).
My iPhone was 100% charged yesteday's morning at 11am, right now (8:40am of the next day) my battery is at 75%! It works!
Thanks again to sbailey4!.
Today I started noticing that the battery was getting drained again at a 4%/h rate, and realized that the IR (proximity sensor) was always on (even though the Rise to Speak function was turned off), so I restarted the phone and now is working OK again .
I think my iPhone has suffered all possible battery issues, and this forum had been very helpful to solve them all.