Same here, there are some posts here but none of them work for me!
Apple ID 1: purchasing account
ID and primary email is --- My Gmail email
Alternative email is ------- My Me.com email ***
Apple ID 2: iCloud account, migrated from MobileMe
ID and primary email is --- My Me.com email
Alternative email is ------- My Gmail email
*** I want to delete this one from alt email, not verified, verify link does nothing.
Any new fix or Apple will fix or let us merge multiple IDs? Hopefully soon!