iMessage labeling with separate Apple IDs
So the parties involved are my wife, daughter, and myself. All using iMessage. I sent a message via iPhone iOS 5 to wife using an iPad iOS 5. My daughter using iPhone iOS 5, who is an innocent bystander, received my message but... It said it came from my wife. Also when my wife received the message it labeled it as if it came from herself.
We all have individual Apple IDs for iCloud. We share an Apple ID for iTunes. All devices verified that iCloud IDs are what they should be and IDs on messages are separate.
Confused!! Please help.