So fustrated users, I actually got it to work by the following procedure. Not going to gaurentee that it will work for all, but it worked for me.
Upgraded my Airport Extreme to firmware 7.6 for a second time (yes, that means I upgraded to 7.6, then downgraded back to 7.5.2, and then upgraded again back to 7.6). I then turned off all devices: 1 ipad, 2 iphones, and 2 mac book pros. Physically unplugged everything from the wall. The airport extreme, tv, satelitte, router, reciever, playstation, etc..
Waited one hour and plugged everytthing back in first. Let all things boot up and then turned all on the apple devices. Checked all speeds on all devices and I am overly happy to say everything is running at high speeds once again.
All devices are running at 7mgbps once again instead of 0.43. Yes, 7 is my top speed, I live up in mountains of Colorado and its a miracle that we can get 7 where we live. The best of both worlds, technology and nature.
Apple, I am thankful and happy to be a customer.
To the rest, I hope this helps, no guarentee it will, but good luck, don't lose faith