Thank you for correcting my mistake. I've now found the leading s.
srwxr-xr-x 1 axel staff - 0 Nov 21 16:55 ubiquity.socket
I have made some progress now. I gave the user permission to adminitrer the computer (instead parental control) and then tried sudo chmod -RN ~ again.
This is the result:
chmod: Failed to clear ACL on file IMG_0878.JPG: Operation not permitted
chmod: Failed to clear ACL on file IMG_0878.JPG: Operation not permitted
chmod: Failed to clear ACL on file LaunchU3.exe: Operation not permitted
chmod: Failed to clear ACL on file .plma: Operation not permitted
chmod: Failed to clear ACL on file LaunchU3.exe: Operation not permitted
chmod: Failed to clear ACL on file ubiquity.socket: Invalid argument
chmod: Failed to clear ACL on file IMG_0878.JPG: Operation not permitted
I was surprised to find exe files. I thought that was pc...
Anyway, I reset the users permissions to parental control and things seems to be back to normal again. These errors indicate that there's more to do, but I'm glad for this step forward.
I have found one remaining problem - I still have to enter my name several times to give me permission to read & write in their folders.
Thank you for all help!