Ok, this has probably been mentioned before and does not solve the problem from this happening again but this is what they told me to do when I decided to just "report a problem" on the song through Itunes and it did repair the songs. I am sure I will find more songs that this will happen to and have to do the same thing, and also ***** for anything you do not get directly from Itunes because you probably have to burn it again but this worked and repaired every song I tried to far.
- delete song by holding Shift and Delete keys and also remove it from Cloud when prompted
- I also deleted on all iphone etc... to get rid of it
- download again under purchases from itunes on my main computer (probably could work on phone/ipad/etc... direct but I wanted to be sure where I saved them
- updated Match
- downloaded again from Cloud onto iphones
all work now
still annoying that it happens but I know in the meantime now what I can do to get my songs back, but I know I will find more and probably at times when I really want to hear them at not at home to go through this process, but first somewhat positive thing I have found to at least get them working again