Errm... It's probably not ethical to walk you through a step-by-step process of hacking into his unsecured network but it's astonishingly easy. The fact that you can see his network at all is half the battle. The rest just involves a bit of online research as what, if any, default password is set for his particular brand of router and what the address (starting 192.168.......) of it is. That's probably more than I should have said, but I'd bet that I've said nothing new to a very large proportion of the posters here.
On a more practical & ethical note, if, having altered the settings as I've detailed above, your Mac is still asking if you want to join his network then his must be stronger than yours.(?) Try moving your wifi router/AEBS so that you get a stronger signal from it. Try changing channels. (I don't think you can do this on an AEBS) Experiment a bit. I've had to try several different channels because our microwave used to mess up the wifi signal.
Duane says
"That just makes the problem worse because Terry will suffer the effects of RF interference but won't know the cause."
I can't see how it would make the situation worse. He'd be in exactly the same situation as he would be if his neighbour had set his router up properly.
Have fun!
Adrian
ibook G4, iMac G4 (10.3.9) Mac OS X (10.4.4) Belkin Wireless F5D7632