Lol Sorry I kinda thought that it was a little obvious to say that I was connected via wifi, my mistake, i'm so sorry, please allow me to clarify. Yes, I'm connected, and have full strength all the time I'm trying. It's a Wifi iPad, not a 3G one, but I have Wifi all over my house.
I can push the send button, and it goes, but the person never receives it. There is no error report of any kind and no indication that they haven't actually received it. I only know because I asked the person if they got the message O_o
I have activated iMessage to the best of my knowledge. When I go to Settings>Messages I have iMessage set to "on". Send read receipts "on". Receive at "2 email addresses" and Show Subject Field "off". Someone whoes iMessages is working helped me set it up, but it's still not working... Every time they send me an iMessage, I get an email instead!