i've been trying everything to make it work from turn on and off to restore and nothing works.
Not too sure of the phraseology you have used but have you tried a Reset [Hold the Home and Sleep/Wake buttons down together for 10 seconds or so (until the Apple logo appears) and then release]? It is 'appsolutely' safe!
i did that too. what i mean was i reset the all the settings, enable the restrictions, turn on and off several times, and thats about it. i dont know what else to do.
Have you tried Settings, Store, and toggling the Automatic download on the Apps symbol to On/Off.
Also, I do not know if this would be any good but you could try downloading a free app in iTunes and syncing it to your iPad!
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