cannot get ringtones to sync from rmaker ?

They don't sync straight from ringmaker app.

After creating the ringtone, connect your iPhone to your computer and start up iTunes. Your iTunes, go to Apps, scroll down to the bottom of the page, and you will see the ringmaker app. Click on it. To the right you will see opened up a list of the ringtones you've made. Choose which ones you want, and save to a folder already set up or start a new one. (I have a file on my comp titled Ringtones, just for this purpose.) Once you've saved the ringtones in the desktop folder, drag and drop the ringtones into Music in your iTunes. Sync phone. Ringtones are now in your sounds on your phone.

Theres also a youtube video within the ringtone maker app explaining how to do what Carrie said.