Q: how can i find my ipod cause it wont show up ob find iphone

Try here:

iCloud: Troubleshooting Find My iPhone, iPad, iPod touch, or Mac

However, it can easily be defeated by turning the iPod off or restoring the iPod.

You will just have to kook for it the old fasgioned way. Apple will not help

Reoport to police and change the passwords for all accounts used on the iPod.