Jeroen Akershoek wrote:
I hope for some advice about what I should check and do to see if my system is not infected by anything. Is it possible to see if someone had secret access to my computer?
Not really, if something is installed it could be using the currently open ports you use to surf the net with.
Since the computer code is so complicated and it's impossible to detemine what you've installed over the years, your only real course of action is to backup all your personal user files folders off the machine and disconnect (not TimeMachine!, a regular drive), hold c boot off the 10.6.3 disk and use Disk Utility (under the Utilities menu) to Erase with Zero your entire hard drive, then install 10.6.3, reboot, log in with your same user name as before (important, different password is ok), Software Update to 10.6.8, then install all your programs from fresh sources and finally transfer your files back into their respective folders (Music, Pictures, Desktop, Documents, Movies, Sites, Public, not Library) from backup.
You won't get the free iLife you had on 10.4 install disks, you'll have to buy new copies.
Some software that squeeked by you may have to purchase again for 10.6.
Once you get a clean machine again, install LittleSnitch, it's a outgoing firewall that will catch a lot of those background outbound communications which you can allow or disallow either temporary or pernamently.
However LS is only a helper, the bad guys know about it and any trojan you've installed on your machine with the Admin password will disable LS the first chance it gets.
Also once you pernamently allow a program to gain access to the web, it stays that way, so lets say if you install Chrome, alllow it to connect to the web and Google decides to start spying on you, LS can't help you unless Chrome starts using another port to do so. But likely you would scratch your head and allow it because you trusted Chrome.