iphone not showing in itunes

Hi Please make sure you are not running VMWARE or Parrallels in the background.

If you have any Virtual Machines open this will fail

http://support.apple.com/kb/TS1538

My Iphone6 plus would come up on photo's but wouldn't on itunes and i legitimately reset my phone 4 times.

DONT DO THAT.

This is what you should do.

If you have another computer at home, plug your phone into that computer. However, if it's not a mac book and doesn't have itunes just download itunes on www.itunesdownload.com and then go on youtube, copy the link and paste it into youtube converter. And just apply the skills you know to download the song.

So, the summary is that use a different computer.