if it is grinding and whirling, mine is silent on most, i'd say there is a problem. i know on some discs like symantec or microsoft, i've had whirling and noises and vibrations due to overspinning reading those cd's. the only time my cd's make a noise, is when there is a read error. there is something wrong with the firmware or a conflict with the os/intel/firmware for the drive. like i said before, i have the same drive in the dell 700m and it works fine on the trouble discs for the imac.
i wish there was an emergency eject button too. in fact, there is an eject button on the drive itself, but it is covered by the imac housing. it would be located 1cm up from the bottom of the slot and to the back of the opening. even though the drive freezes, i have been able to force stop the program and eventually the cd will come out.
i just bought discblaze, hoping that it will be better than toast. i do not like toast at all. i just bought toast last week. hopefully, roxio will make it a free upgrade to the univeral or an update. i guess i'll just have to do all my burning on nero through my pc.