I have 2 different ITune accounts, Is there a way of merging so I can have just 1?

It is not possible to merge iTunes accounts.

Refer here:

Frequently asked questions about Apple ID

http://support.apple.com/kb/HE37

I have multiple Apple IDs. Is there a way for me to merge them into a single Apple ID?

Apple IDs cannot be merged. You should use your preferred Apple ID from now on, but you can still access your purchased items such as music, movies, or software using your other Apple IDs.

If you are wondering how using multiple Apple IDs relate to iCloud, see Apple IDs and iCloud.

I would click this helped me except obvs it didn't coz the situation is evil

After finding out Apple won't allow us to merge two itunes accounts I have to say Apple is losing its magic.