SMS and iMessage
I just started using iMessage and from what I've heard if you have "Send as SMS" turned off in settings, then you can only send messages through iMessage. If the phone you are sending an SMS to doesnt have iMessage does that they can't receive anything, and that you can't receive any SMS from them? And if you do have "Send as SMS" on I've heard that even if you intend to send an SMS to another iMessage user it will go into their iMessage inbox instead and if they don't have iMessage it will just go to their SMS, true?. But if for whatever reason iMessage isn't working (since i'm on wifi using it) and it goes through as an SMS will I know and can I be prompted before the SMS get's sent? I have both my number and email for iMessage.
I'm on credit and all I want is the best option with SMS and iMessage without having credit accidentally used up because iMessage isn't working.
iPhone 4, iOS 5.1