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You can restore the iPhone from backup on the last computer your iPhone synced with, this will allow you to reset the passcode http://support.apple.com/kb/HT1414. If you do not have access to the last computer the phone synced with, you will have to force the phone into recovery mode & restore as a new device, all data on the phone will be erased http://support.apple.com/kb/HT1808.

1. Turn off your iPhone/

2. Plug the Sync cable to your computer

3. Plug in the sync cable to your iPhone while holding the "Home" button.

4. iTunes should say "Found a Device on Recovery".

5. Restore your iPhone

6. If you have a backup of your device, then you should be good to go or else you will have start as a new device

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