Hi bernd,
I assume you have you upgraded to iPhoto 9.3 and Aperture 3.3?
Aperture says it will need 313 GB. Is that normal?
Unfortunately it has happened, but it is not normal 😉 There probably is something wrong with your libraries.
Is there a difference between just opening my iPhoto library with Aperture or importing it?
Yes, there is. when you are browsing an iPhoto Library from Aperture, the Aperture will not convert the library. But when you import it, then Aperture needs additional space to rebuild the iPhoto items as Aperture items, but not 5 times the size of the original library.
I would turn off anything that need additional space, like faces, previews, when importing. Also I would suggest to rebuild both libraries before uniting them with the Library First Aid tools.
Lauch Aperture with the ⌥⌘-keys hold down and rebuild the Aperture Library, and do the same with the iPhoto Library. (I assume your iPhoto Library already has been converted to 9.3 format?).
Back up both libraries, before you try the import.
Regards
Léonie