Hmm, this is really turning into a stumper. You tried my suggestion of nuking ALL the caches, using that second command, right? If not, try that now.
Otherwise, just to verify, any other user account works fine, it's just yours that is behaving this way? If that's correct, there's something wonky in your user folder somewhere, which means that reinstalling the system isn't likely to help. Try macjack's suggestion, but if that doesn't work, I'm out of easy suggestions. I would probably start methodically removing things from my user folder, but that's hard to do for someone who has no access to the Finder and who doesn't know how to use the Terminal for such things.
The easiest thing for you to do, if all else fails and nobody else has any ideas, would be to migrate all your data to a new user account. I've never actually had to do that, though, so I don't know what kind of permissions issues you might run into. But the basics are covered here:
http://pondini.org/OSX/Transfer.html