where is the itunes menu???

If you don't see theiTunes menus at the top of your screen, you may be running in full screen mode. Move your cursor to the top of the screen for a few seconds and the menus will appear. To exit full screen mode, slidew the cursoir all the way to the top right corner of the screen and click the blue box with two arrows, or slide over to the View menu and select Exit full screen, or just type shift+Command+F.