Q: Refund

Does anybody else have access to your iPad and could have made the purchase ? If not then you can try contacting iTunes support and ask for a refund/credit : http://www.apple.com/support/itunes/contact/ - click on Express Lane, then iTunes > iTunes Store

MY iTunes has been acting weir since I create it in the last 5 days this is the second time it's happened but this time I can not afford it and I'm not a student so I do not even qualify

Please stop and deny the pending purchase its par of my rent and I will update my account with a new card

second time it's happened but this time I can not afford it and I'm not a student so I do not even qualify

Second time what has happened, and you do not 'qualify' for what ?

Purchase history : See your purchase history in the iTunes Store on a Mac or PC - Apple Support

Temporary holding charges : About payment card authorization holds in the iTunes Store - Apple Support

Please stop and deny the pending purchase its par of my rent and I will update my account with a new card

We are fellow users on these forums, we can't stop/refund purchases on your account.

If you think somebody has access to your account change your password via http://appleid.apple.com (What to do after you change your Apple ID email address or password - Apple Support)