wow, again I'm very impressed -- thanks for the replies everybody! I tried to respond last night but the site was down for maintenance. Wayne -- I read both of your (original) messages. Thank you.
I have a mid 2012 15" rMBP, OS X 10.8.4 (clean reinstall last week), 2.3 GHz Intel i7, 16 GB RAM, 256 GB SSD hardrive, new Samsung screen as of last week.
1-year warranty expires exactly 2 weeks from today.
Sorry for naming "that which must not be named" -- my fault. Although as of this morning nothing has been deleted by Apple as far as I can tell.
So yes, I'm still very nervous about my warranty expiring and don't want to buy AppleCare since I feel neglected by Apple and don't want to give them any more of my money. But I feel like my hands are tied. If the problems with the rMBP 15" are NOT hardware-related, then trying to get a replacement or a hardware fix won't do anything. Right now my lag is so bad that I'm typing faster than the characters are appearing on my screen -- normal for me sadly. If the issues are resolved in the Fall, then I'll have a 1.5-year-old computer that never worked in the first 1.5 years. Is it worth it? Will it still be "top of the line"? Probably not for very long ...
I waited and waited for the rMBP and didn't buy a new computer in the past 6 years. Used student loan money ($2300) for my rMBP, first Apple product I've ever bought. I needed it for computation-heavy research and graphics-heavy documents (like writing a 400-page book and my dissertation, neither one of which I can scroll through in any reasonable way), and I *thought* (and was told by my friends and the employees at my Apple store) that this rMBP would be perfect. The specs speak for themselves. What a heartbreaking disappointment.
I think I'm going to go to my "genius" bar again today to try and see what my options are. Yes, I have an Apple store within walking distance of my apartment, but every single time I've gone it has been unhelpful. Oh well. I'll report back in case anyone is interested. I have actually read almost all of this thread from the beginning (amongst many others), again, this has been most helpful. If only Apple could be 50% as helpful/knowlegeable as the folks here!