Hi,
Thanks for the feedback, i've got more.
Aside from my little rugged 3.0 Lacie Drive which works flawlessly, l was able to get a single usb 3.0 case from a friend for a backup 3.5" drive , it is this one: http://www.storeva.com/fr/SilverDrive-U3-68.html
I plugged it yesterday evening and it works perfects, as my rugged lacie does. That means that it does not seem (to have the need) to eject on sleep and the drive is still mounted and ready for use on wakeup.
i opened a CR2 image file and it showed without delay.
Note that it has an external power source, so it is not linked to having a separated power source or not.
In my non-working 4-drive usb 3.0 storage array, drives are ungracefully ejected (red exclamation box) and remounts painlfully on wakeup, or still show on desktop but aren't real because access on their files is extremely slow (finder shows blank screen without any files for a little time at first...)
Anyway, it all seems to boil down to the controler of the sata to usb3 interface which is in the box/case/bay to which the drive(s) are connected to.