First of all I have no problem with physical drives. My problem is with mounted dmg´s. The symptoms are exactly the same with ejected images when computer goes to sleep.
I installed the 10.8.1 yesterday and woke up this morning to a computer with the dmg´s still mounted.
HOWEVER... I left home and got to work, I checked it again via ssh to see if there were any changes.
now the images where ejected...? and the computer wasnt even close to going to sleep. (20 minutes to work).
BUT, the only thing that happened during those minutes were that my wife logged in on the computer (fast user switching, keeping my account logged in).
So in my case the ejection always occurs when another user log in. And since a *nix system has plenty of users that are doing tasks not meant for the user to see (root, wheel,www etc) then I believe that this might be part of the problem. Maybe there is an user that activates during sleep that is causing the problem...
I don´t know. Just another input to the problem.