hi,
If Messages is starting up at the same time sa the computer then start it separately.
It will "read" the speed it can see at this time and "write" it to the .plist involved.
At computer Start up the Computer is busy making connections itself and uses a large amount of your Bandwidth distorting what iChat or Messages can "See"
Do a Speed test and compare this to what you think you should be getting.
AS you say it can pay to try a router reboot if the speed looks a little low.
9:22 PM Saturday; August 11, 2012
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