Gmail was in my Apple ID, but they've suspended my account because they are sure (but wrong) that I've been hacked-into, or hijacked or phished - could explain it in 2 min. If I could talk to something that breathes (No, that doesn't Apple Support)

Since Gmail is protecting me by blocking my email, and I can't change my security questions (and don't remember if said OK or Oklahoma - etc.), and Apple doesn't recognize my password, I have to come up with $30 more dollars to access my Home Sharing, iTunes. iTunes Match everything I've spent a couple of thousand dollars on I'd inaccessible.

I've tried changing the security questions. I can't! I've done everything explained in those FAQs, I still need email to confirm it.

There is no solution.