Thanks for replying, even if you don't appreciate complex and dumb, or more correctly brilliant and simple. Your other comments give it away.
And I'm sure not going to get into a debate about Plex. I've said it doesn't meet my needs. It is not an issue of reading the manual. Plex comes from a world where complexity and infinite choice is held up as a virtue. This is not the Mac world.
I thank you for replying, so I'll give a few examples, to help with understanding my position. I could do this all day, but here's a taste.
Plex can do so many many things - show my videos by actor director, and so on - fantastic app to your mind - but none of these I need, and far from helping, it complicates the experience to the point of frustration. Most especially when it's grabbed the wrong meta data and renamed files, so I don't even know what the video is, without playing it. (complex & dumb)
Select any one of MANY views of my data - the last option, Folder, is the only one I need, and getting there can be as simple as scrolling a long list, or fighting through some supposedly helpful large icon view.
It remembers where I was in a list, but not the type of list I want - stupid, stupid, stupid!
It doesn't play iTunes movies. Too bad it doesn't work with DRM.
Plex is not Mac-like and doesn't have much awareness of the Mac OS.
And don't even get me started on having to run a server, update the server library, and all the so-called clever things this server does - that I just don't need.
The only reason I use Plex, is because it recognises the Apple Remote, something Mountain Lion goes out of its way to ignore. Yes you can pair, and other apps like Plex and EyeTV recognise the remote, but Apple software like iTunes (and any functional Front Row) do not.
Some of the advice here will get me a functional Front Row, which I really appreciate, but even that 'old' Front Row, now doesn't recognise the Apple Remote, which means walking over to the computer - defeating the purpose.
Which brings me back to Mountain Lion's deliberate hostility to Front Row and Apple Remote, and begging Apple to remove these blocks.