Give it a try:
How to change your username and/or password from the Terminal
1. Boot into single-user or verbose mode
2. At the prompt enter the following commands. Press RETURN after each:
fsck -fy
mount -uw /
launchctl load /System/Library/LaunchDaemons/com.apple.DirectoryServices.plist
dscl . -passwd /Users/username password
Replace username with the targeted user and password with the desired password.
Reboot
This allows you to reset the password in single user mode without booting from the install media. The above tip is attributed to Satcomer.
You will still need to buy a Snow Leopard DVD or replacement discs for the computer:
Apple Store Customer Service at 1-800-676-2775 or visit online Help for more information.
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