Remotely governing a child's iPad?
I'm purchasing an iPad for my child to assist her with learning (primary school age) and to maintain contact with myself (different countries). The mother is untrustworthy hence I need to keep the password for the iPad so only the child can have their apps by asking me to purchase them etc. Can anyone advise the best way to do this; if I register the iPad with my existing Apple ID (so we can share apps) won't this conflict the use of FaceTime etc? If I register the iPad separately, can I maintain full control (such as handling iOS and app updates) using the icloud or iTunes from a remote location? Presuming the iPad has wifi signal would changes I make remotely, automatically update the iPad via it's wifi signal?
iPad, Both of us will have new iPads