Same problems with me.
I use many Lacie (D2 Quadra and rugged) and WD (My Book and My passport) both in my home and in the company I work. I usually connect them using fire wire 800.
This problems have happened on both 12 core and 8 core Mac Pros, with 16, 24 and 64 Gb of RAM, in my home and in the office. I have not notice any problem in regards to the Lacies so far, but all Western Digital have been ejected espontaneously. It can be only coincidence, but it always happens when tranfering huge amount of data. I work with video and animation and it is a commom task to transfer several Gb of highres mov files between HDs. It happens ramdomly, sometimes the HD that is receiving the files is ejected, sometimes the oposite.
After ejected, the HDs sometimes cannot mount again and just do so after restarting the machine Pretty scary!
Some HDs are not mounting at all on specific computers running moutain lion, but works perfectly on other OSX in different computers.
Some people in the office that had the same problem found a solution that seems fix the problem permanently. It looks like the only solution is to format the HD again by using Disk Utility on a machine that runs Moutain Lion. The funny thing is that it olny works when formatted with a different name. I have not tried that yet, but I heard that works. To be honest, this solution is a hassle for those like me that have many TBs already stored in their HDs.
I have tried pretty much everything else and did not succeed on none.
Let me know if someone comes up with another solution
cheers