Itunes in my Mac does not see my Iphone. It is seen only as camera

I just bought this Iphone and by mistake I checked "Yes" to a question if I wanted to turn on the automatic updates. After several minutes the Iphone was visible by Itunes in my Mac it disappeared and do not know where to disable such functions to regain control over the Iphone from my Mac....

When connect it to my computer only Iphoto can see it and download pictures