my iPad is disabled - connect to itunes... HELP please, my iPad is disabled - connect to itunes... HELP please, my iPad is disabled - connect to itunes... HELP please

You will need to connect the iPad to the computer that you normally sync to and you should then be able to reset the iPad and restore/re-sync your content to it (http://support.apple.com/kb/HT1212) - you may need to put the iPad into recovery mode for your computer's iTunes to be able to reset it : http://support.apple.com/kb/ht1808

If you do it via a different computer then :

If you restore on a different computer that was never synced with the device, you will be able to unlock the device for use and remove the passcode, but your data will not be present.

my ipad is never sync'd with any computer, how do I reset this ipad?